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Alwayshopeful2
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Post subject: Another bad day.....................  Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2012 3:22 pm |
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Anyone around to chat??? While I whinge 
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Alwayshopeful2
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2012 4:33 pm |
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well waited for an hour and no replies.....just about tops my day off really. Night all
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2012 7:18 pm |
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Aw, I'm sorry I wasn't around. Hope you're having a good night of sleep, at least!
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2012 10:02 pm |
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AlwaysHopeful2, I'm sorry nobody saw this and there were no mods around to move it. What we call "Conversation Corner" is not a place for real-time chat but a forum for conflict resolution between two people who have triggered anger in each other and need a venue to talk it out without turning the discussion into a flamefest.
We don't have a Chat Room per se, and things are slow enough around here that sometimes a bit of time goes by before someone responds to a post. I'm sorry about that, but it's what is. I hope you'll come back and post something in one of our main forums (like On the Border, where I'm going to move this to), so we can begin to understand how to help you.
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I made some studies, and reality is the leading cause of stress amongst those in touch with it.
I can take it in small doses, but as a lifestyle I found it too confining. -- Jane Wagner
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Alwayshopeful2
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2012 3:13 pm |
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Thanks Guys
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dagwood
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2012 10:33 am |
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How are you doing now, AlwaysHopeful2?
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Alwayshopeful2
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2012 5:42 am |
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Better.....I'm living in the moment
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2012 5:45 am |
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Alwayshopeful2
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 11:06 am |
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He's back. Like nothing's happened.....what break up??? I just needed space. Not whining. Just informing.
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 11:26 am |
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And until he gets some help that's probably how it will continue, IMHO.
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Alwayshopeful2
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 11:54 am |
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 4:46 pm |
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Sometimes it's just best to take a step back, get away from the moment, and try approaching the situation in a new light. My english teacher would always tell us to write the paper and then walk away. Come back in a few days and look at it with fresh eyes.
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Christina
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:48 pm |
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Interesting concept. How did that work for you? Did your perspective change after a few days? Were you able to look at things more practically and less emotionally? I think that would be good advice for people trying to deal with a person with bpd, but it seems like black and white thinking would prevent the person with bpd to see things much differently just a day or two later. I know theoretically through mindfulness and separation from a situation things should have time to level out; I'm just wondering if that works for you guys in real life.
~ Christina
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Alwayshopeful2
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Post subject: Re: Another bad day..................... Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 1:03 am |
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jordan.s wrote: Sometimes it's just best to take a step back, get away from the moment, and try approaching the situation in a new light. My english teacher would always tell us to write the paper and then walk away. Come back in a few days and look at it with fresh eyes. I agree !!
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